Sometimes it is very frustrating. But now that I understand that I can read and absorb the info like a sponge, and figure out the inconsistencies faster than most, I use the same techniques to figure out if other people are lying. But to talk to someone about cooking because they are attractive doesn't seem to work.
Unfortunately, that doesn't explain the why. I believe my brother has it. That happened when he was 10; I first met him when he was He would always be so worried that he was saying or doing the wrong thing, or if he was going too fast and I would have to reassure him that he wasn't. I am naturally very reflective and have always spent a lot of time trying to figure things out. I am a mother of a son with asperger's.
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My advice, just work on pushing yourself into social situations and get to know others around you. Anyways, anyone else have Asperger's and would like to contribute? I'm sure I could make a shitload of money for someone. Sometimes I think she sort of takes what she can get, because so called normal people think she's strange, and her dating pool is rather limited because of it.
So, I've learned that if I have to look away, to look a bit upward and the the side. Anyway, what I had to tell Mom, is that I really did want her to tell me the truth, regardless of what I asked. In some social circumstances, I find it easy to talk to others. Sometimes it takes awhile, keep the faith.
When I started to read up on it,, his life finally made sense. Sometimes it takes awhile, keep the faith. Everything we had gone through for 16 years, made sense.
It is quite likely for Aspie's to end up in engineering, or computer science. She's never succeeded, as they tend to drag her down with them. That's why it's good to read the forums, and ask questions of men and women: I had a friend with asperger's. I think there are a bunch of different things getting lumped together, so it might be a cause in some people.
Read up on body language. I now know to treat verbal statements like I would take a written statement in a book. I am ambivalent about the Aspergers label, it has negative connotations, being as it is something that is considered a problem, a mental problem at that. The reason our friendship ended is a mystery to me.
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This latest expert was talking about Vitamin D deficiency during pregnancy. If one ignores this Asperger's thing, I have qualities which the human race can use. But I find it utterly draining. One thing from that Slashdot thread, was that in places where there is a lot of high tech like Silicon Valley, places where NASA has big facilities, etc. Then keep it in mind with you and someone else.
Hope you do too, Fortran. I just know he's amazing to me, and I love his quirkiness and appreciate his acceptance of me just the way I am. But the biggest problem is lack of feedback.
Sometimes it takes awhile, keep the faith. My little brother who is 17 has this as well.. Keep a separate list for the men.
Give each one a score out of 10, in terms of how they reacted, and write it down in a cubicle in the toilet, when no-one is looking. She had problems with going back to college, because she didn't take instruction well Not being able to make the world see where she is coming from, or make it change to think the way she does, makes her break down from time to time and have to be hospitalized. I found out about it in my psychology class and I read up on it and asked him about it and he said that he was diagnosed when he was 15 with it and he was so ashamed about it. My sensei noticed he was losing weight; found out what happened; and talked the parents into finding a better school. Behind the mask,, he was able to play!
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One of my sisters is very honest, but I've grown into the situation where I really don't ask her anything any more. I'm curious about the condition because I have always felt that I did not fit in and that I felt and perceived things differently and more intensely than most people around me; that I was much more sensitive in some ways and totally oblivious in others. I have no idea if someone is judging me prior to me talking to them, so it's reallt hard for me to make new friends at times. But I find it utterly draining. You need to have the right social skills in order to hold a proper intimate relationship with someone.