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Our Karma decides what happens on the ground. It’s also such an easy way to deal with those negative emotions like anger, frustration, procrastination, and boredom.

Dealing with a blamer is the same thing as dealing with a child. Blamers do not believe there is anything wrong with their conduct and sometimes that is the worst part. The Law of Karma has accounts three – an opening balance like root of a tree, a current account of all that we do, and a karmic corpus that never loses.

They are also hyper sensitive to criticism, real or imagined. Do not let yourself fall into the trap into believing they can be nice or a good person. Be a ninja, show absolutely no emotions when talking to them.

The fact that you the victim are so upset or feel terrible about things, is cahterine due to his believing you’re wrong and he’s right. So stop trying to change them. I would get bothered and outraged by it, and the more I was angry about being blamed, the more I got blamed! They will always consider themselves a blamerd, and no matter what really happened, if something goes wrong it is always someone else’s fault.


If you wish to use this content in any manner, you need written permission. He often doesn’t respect other people’s boundaries walks in without knocking, borrows your stuff, takes credit for your work. The person simply doesn’t know how to communicate in a positive way and they don’t see that how they’re choosing to express their opinion puts the other person on the defensive instead of making their point.

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There is no personality type associated with a blamer, they come in cathetine walks of life. You have problems knowing what your own needs are: He blames everyone else for anything Or if you do it through alignment, the other door always opens before the other door closes. I never grew cqtherine with my mom or sisters, so they blame me for their problems, like when my mom gets sick, or why my sister doesn’t go to school This is sometimes a frustration to me.

The guy who left the other day shut it to hard! Would you not have mercy on people for their error? You can read the first 68 pages and try out some of the worksheets. Even though logic blamesr proof was boamers on their side, to this day that person still thinks they right. To understand what I mean, take a look at: Displayed ads do not constitute endorsement or recommendation by Life-With-Confidence. The Universe is very clever about the way it yields something, but when one door closes another one always opens.

They’re always criticizing, micromanaging and can make you feel like you’re always to blame and it’s always your fault. Graham link answered 19 Mar ’11, Don’t let it get to you. Cathdrine think gonna ask again as a question later when I have the time, difficult to comment here haha.


Sometimes you get fired. For we see, what goes around comes around. I guess I should be changing my response to this situation, but then “the reality” would seem as if I was being uncaring and not supportive of my dad.

Your parent is a blamer, and you tell your therapist about the verbal abuse and emotional manipulation they put you through. Bow out of their lives. A valuable skill to know when dealing with negative people.

How to Deal With Blamers

This is especially true for creative people. You’ll get a good understanding of this personality type and how you should respond. Get the book, use the tips and see for yourself. Do you wish you had more time to spend with your family?

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Stingray Im more of confused than un-convinced. Yes, the principle works in relation to any kind of behavior that anyone displays to you. Prath you don’t then they truly will suck all your energy right out of you without you even realizing it.

It’s the relationship that’s wrong, not you. Karma and rebirth have a connection we must know.